Friday Fruit Audit ~ Love for Others

jenosullivan_20130629_0450_web_sharefilesDo you love people?

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us. – 1 John 4:7-12 (ESV)

For a long time I really did not know what to do with the above passage. While I understood the command and the concept, I failed miserably at its application. I felt destined to always stumble and trip through my life of wanting to love others but knowing at my core I had a strong disdain for people. It is hard for me to admit as people who know me, know that I am pretty happy and always willing to help others. One of my students summed it up one night after class when she said, “You are very patient with your students, always eager to explain and re-explain a concept until we get it. But one thing I also know is that you do not suffer fools.” That one comment stumped me. As I drove home I thought long and hard about her comment. She nailed it. I love teaching and really have no problem talking through something several times with patience. However, and it is a big HOWEVER, whenever I get a student in class that is foolish, meaning they really don’t care to understand, well, then I have absolutely zero patience for them. I loath people like that. Or at least I did. The word “idiot” often entered my train of thought.

I often found myself in the exact same position as the Pharisee in Jesus’ day. “The Pharisee, standing by himself, prayed thus: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector.'” – Luke 18:11 I would just change out the words a bit, such as “Thank you God that I am not like these idiots, or that moron over there who can’t seem to get my order right, or that parent that yells at her kids incessantly, or that photographer who has no idea what they are doing.” The list goes on and I bet it does for you too.

All we know is all we know and usually our way is the best way. It is how we were raised and what is ingrained so deeply within us. But God commands us to live a different way. I knew that with my head, but for some reason could not get my heart to line up. When I was honest, I really did feel like a better person than everyone else. But looking back, I was in the darkness.

Whoever loves his brother abides in the light, and in him there is no cause for stumbling. But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness, and does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes. – 1 John 2:10-11 (ESV)

I was blinded and had no idea why. I was a good Christian who prayed, read her Bible, and went to Church. Then I realized, I was trying to do it on my own and not through Christ. Did you know it is almost impossible to love others more than yourself? Even though it is a command, it is something that without the Holy Spirit in our life we cannot do on our own. It is not in our make up.

Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. – Philippians 2:3

Jesus sent the Holy Spirit to help us. My son’s memory verse the very first week of school his Kindergarten year was “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:13. I was brought up to believe I can do all things if I put my mind to it. How incredibly wrong and misguided I was. It is only through Christ who gives me strength that I am able to do all things. Think that one through.

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” – John 13:34-35

The above verse in John sums it up. People will know you are a Christian if you have love for one another. Sadly I cannot tell who the Christians are of this day and age, can you?  When I thought I was a Christian, I professed to be one and did all the things Christians did, but Christ was not in me. Looking back it is all crystal clear. I did things on my own strength. The only way to truly get right with God and know you are a Christian is to audit your fruits. Do it often. If you are unclear still, ask God daily to reveal himself to you. Get on your knees and surrender completely your life to him. Don’t wait. Don’t let your pride get in the way. This is too important. How sad for you to live your whole life thinking you are a Christian only to get to Jesus when you die and to hear him say, “Depart from me you worker of lawlessness!” The horror at that very moment would be unbearable.  My heart is overwhelmed by compassion for those of you who are adamant that you are saved but live like everyone else. Read the other fruit audits, read my testimony, and read what the Gospel really is.

FRUIT AUDITS

Check your Character

What do you Crave?

Do you have Chronic Sin?

Do you Walk by the Spirit?

Do you Watch what you Speak?

Do you Love Others?

Blessing God ~ Between a Rock and a Hard Place

Between a Rock and a Hard Place“Between a Rock and a Hard Place”
Daniel 1:3-21

by Bible.org

Texans have an expression for being in a difficult situation. They call it “being between a rock and a hard place.” That is an appropriate title for this message because Daniel seems to be caught in the middle between God and Nebuchadnezzar. If Daniel were to follow exactly the plans Nebuchadnezzar had for the Hebrew captives, he would defile himself and displease God. If Daniel simply refused to do what Nebuchadnezzar expected, he would be in trouble with the king who had taken him captive.

This is not the only time in Daniel where we will find tension between pleasing God and pleasing those in authority. In chapter 3 Daniel’s three friends must choose between bowing down to the king’s image and being thrown into the fiery furnace. In Daniel 6, Daniel’s choice is between forsaking his prayers and facing the lions.

The dilemma Daniel faces in chapter 1 is different from that found in Daniel 3 and 6. In these latter chapters, the issue is: Pleasing God OR Pleasing men.

In chapter 1, Daniel and his friends face the opportunity for: Pleasing God AND Pleasing men.

The task at hand was not an easy one. For Daniel and his friends, it would require commitment and perseverance. Beyond that, it would require divine strength and intervention and certainly supernatural motivation. Daniel and his three friends did not do “what comes naturally” in this chapter. They did “what comes supernaturally,” to the glory of God.

Think for a moment how a person like Daniel could have felt toward God and toward government, because of what had happened to him. From what little we are told of Daniel’s early childhood (see Daniel 1:1-2), we can surmise that he grew up in Judah, perhaps in the city of Jerusalem. He was likely born of parents high in the social rankings of Judah, maybe even of royal blood (Daniel 1:3). Daniel’s life dramatically changed for the worse (or so it seemed), through no fault of his own.

Long before Daniel’s day, the united kingdom of Israel once ruled by Saul, David, and finally Solomon, divided into two nations. The northern kingdom, known as Israel (sometimes called “Ephraim” by the prophets) was consistently wicked, worshipping idols and forsaking the law of God. The southern kingdom, known as Judah, was often wicked, too, but had times of repentance and revival.

The prophets of God warned of future judgment against Israel if she did not repent from her wicked ways. Israel did not listen, and God’s judgment came upon this wayward nation in the form of defeat and dispersion by the Assyrians.

Assyria was eager to extend her empire by adding the southern kingdom of Judah to her conquests, but God intervened, sparing Judah from the hand of the Assyrians. God pointed to the fall of Israel at the hand of the Assyrians as an object lesson for wayward Judah. He warned of a similar fate for Judah at the hand of the nation of Babylon. Judah refused to heed these warnings, so captivity came upon the southern kingdom as well.

Daniel, along with a number of other Hebrew youths, were part of the first wave of captives held hostage in Babylon. Several attacks on Jerusalem would follow, with many Hebrews deported to Babylon to spend 70 years in captivity. As were others, Daniel was torn from his native land, his family, and his friends, so far as we know, never seeing his homeland again. It is even possible, since Daniel is called a eunuch, castration was a part of his humiliation as a Hebrew hostage.18

How easy it would have been for Daniel to become bitter toward Babylon, toward his own people [after all, Israel’s sin brought on God’s judgment], and even toward God [God gave Jehoiakim king of Judah into the hand of Nebuchadnezzar (Daniel 1:2)]! We are not told about the attitudes and actions of any of the other Hebrew hostages, but it is probably safe to assume they did not respond the way Daniel and his friends did.

The first chapter is critical to our understanding of the entire Book of Daniel, providing the historical setting for the entire book, and especially revealing the mind set of Daniel and his three friends. It explains, in part, the reasons for Daniel’s rise to a position of great influence in the Babylonian government.

Chapter 1 introduces Nebuchadnezzar, the king under whom Daniel serves in chapters 1-4, as being impressed with Daniel and his friends because of their wisdom. As the book proceeds, the king begins to understand that their wisdom is from God. In Daniel 1, Nebuchadnezzar places the articles he took from the temple in Jerusalem, the “house of God,” into the house of his god supposing that his “god” is greater than the God of the Jews. By chapter 4, Nebuchadnezzar is humbling himself in worship and praise before the God of the Jews, acknowledging Him to be the God of the universe—God alone.

Daniel 1 presents those who live in the “times of the Gentiles,” whether Jew or Gentile, with the ideal, the goal for which every Christian should strive—pleasing God and pleasing men. Daniel and his friends are the “ideal Jews” who did what the Jews as a nation did not do. They refused to defile things the Jews persistently practiced. In our text, Daniel and his friends provide us with a model of biblical submission, primarily a submission to God, but also a submission to those under whose authority God has placed us.

Chapter 1 instructs us in holiness. Daniel and his friends knew where and how to “draw the line” between what was defiling and what was not. We who desire to live godly lives will find much to gain from the example of Daniel and his friends, as revealed in this great text of scripture.

Finally, our text establishes a connection between godliness and wisdom. As a result of their actions, Daniel and his three friends are given wisdom which far surpasses that of all others in Babylon, whether Jew or Gentile. Our text has much to say to us about the source of true wisdom. Let those who would be wise learn from Daniel and his friends and listen well to what the Spirit of God has to teach us, through these men, about godly living in an ungodly world.

Quote of the Day ~ C.S. Lewis on Belief

“You never know how much you really believe anything until its truth or falsehood becomes a matter of life and death to you.”
― C.S. Lewis

Blessing God ~ Worn Out

Weary and Worn Out“Worn Out”

Are you worn out? Do you need a vacation even though the Fall just began? I am. Why? I couldn’t tell you. I just know that the excitement of early September brought soon after a lull by the middle of the month. I read the below verses in my Daily Bible Reading on September 16th and had to laugh at how relevant the words are that were written over 2000 years ago by Agur son of Jakeh. Sometimes I feel too stupid to be a mom or a wife or a photographer or anything for that matter. But here I am. God made me who I am and He made me for a purpose. We are so vastly different from God that it is important to remember that we don’t have all the information yet. We are limited in our perspective and our ideas because we are finite beings created by an infinite God. His energy and wisdom are our life line in every situation, especially the hard times. Give everything to Him and he will make straight your paths!

The man declares, I am weary, O God;
I am weary, O God, and worn out.
Surely I am too stupid to be a man.
I have not the understanding of a man.
I have not learned wisdom,
nor have I knowledge of the Holy One.
– Proverbs 30:1-3

Thursday Theology ~ Dr. Mike Fabarez

This sermon was given back in July 1997 by Pastor and Doctor Mike Fabarez. It is such a strong message I’d like you to take a moment to listen to it. It is only 40 minutes long but it packs a punch. CAUTION: This may be upsetting but may also prove to be life saving.

http://www.focalpointministries.org/sermon/but-ive-always-been-a-christian-97-24/

Quote of the Day ~ C.S. Lewis on the Future

“The future is something which everyone reaches at the rate of sixty minutes an hour, whatever he does, whoever he is.”
― C.S. Lewis

Wednesday Worship ~ Stronger by Jeff Johnson

Stronger by Jeff Johnson

There is love that came for us
Humbled to a sinner’s cross
You broke my shame and sinfulness
You rose again victorious

Faithfulness none can deny
Through the storm and through the fire
There is truth that sets me free
Jesus Christ, who lives in me

Chorus:
You are stronger, You are stronger
Sin is broken, You have saved me
It is written, Christ is risen
Jesus, You are Lord of all

No beginning and no end
You’re my hope and my defense
You came to seek and save the lost
You paid it all upon the cross

Chorus:
You are stronger, You are stronger
Sin is broken, You have saved me
It is written, Christ is risen
Jesus, You are Lord of all

So let Your name be lifted higher,
Be lifted higher, be lifted higher
So let Your name be lifted higher,
Be lifted higher, be lifted higher

So let Your name be lifted higher,
Be lifted higher, be lifted higher
So let Your name be lifted higher,
Be lifted higher, be lifted higher

Chorus:
You are stronger, You are stronger
Sin is broken, You have saved me
It is written, Christ is risen
Jesus, You are Lord of all

You are stronger, You are stronger
Sin is broken, You have saved me
It is written, Christ is risen
Jesus, You are Lord of all

Jesus, You are Lord of all
Jesus, You are Lord of all

Copyright Jeff Johnson 2009

Blessing God ~ Crystal Clarity

I am one of those people who really cannot wait to see Heaven. I think about it all the time. It is said that people who are heavenly minded are of no earthly good, however the more heavenly minded a person is, the more good on Earth they are able to do. The Bible tells us that those who read Revelation out loud will be blessed. Stop reading this right now and go read, out loud the book of Revelation. Do it as often as you can. You will get excited to do more for the Kingdom of God than you ever thought possible. I pray that the fire of Jesus gets ignited in you today!

Clarity Crystal“Crystal Clarity”

Then the angel showed me the river of the water of life, bright as crystal, flowing from the throne of God and of the Lamb
Revelation 22:1

Photography by Jen O’Sullivan

Blessing God Series
Rain from the Lord
Grass in the Field
Parable of the Pearl
Rocks Cry Out
Flourish
Joy in the Thorns
Perfection
Fruit
Everything
Integrity
Hiding Place
Wonderfully Made
Busy Bee
Dread
The Sad Crown
Patience
Two by Two
The Good Soil
Crystal Clarity

Quote of the Day ~ C.S. Lewis on Human History

“And out of that hopeless attempt has come nearly all that we call human history—money, poverty, ambition, war, prostitution, classes, empires, slavery—the long terrible story of man trying to find something other than God which will make him happy.”
― C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

Tuesday Teaching ~ Heaven is way better than Disneyland!

Disneyland and Mickey Mouse“It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.” ― C.S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory

I have a 5 year old who thinks he knows everything. His experience in life is so limited yet he is so stubborn, as 5 year olds tend to be, that he often misses out on something glorious. He missed out on the thrill of the beach all summer because he begged and pleaded that every day we just go to the pool. “It is way better” he said. We finally got him to the beach and now he loves it so much he wants to go all the time. It would be like telling a kid who’s never been, “We are going to Disneyland tomorrow!” only for it to fall flat when he screams that he wants to stay home and play video games. I think of the angels up in heaven and how they must pity us 1000 times more than we pity the ignorance of our own children at times. Take a moment and try something that may seem a bit silly. Find a Christian friend, or if you are by yourself, go stand in front of a mirror. Jump up and down and shout, “Yay! Yay! Yay!, I get to go to Heaven soon!” You may laugh at first just from the mere silliness of it. But then really think about it. It will bring great joy to your heart!